At this point it is time for him to slack off and forget about romance for a while. He should just enjoy her company and share social activities with her. They’re going to have a child together. Sensual pursuits are fun. As he turns down the power she relaxes and they both turn to a life of total hedonism and enjoyment. She enjoys his company and needs his energy but only a little at a time.
After a while she craves larger and larger doses of his raw energy. She learns how to deal with it more effectively. It begins to give her power and energy and she starts to return some of it back to him in a new form. Up until this point the energy has only been flowing from him to her.
The Tantric cycle involves the male channeling his energy to her so that she can mix it with her own and create something new that both of them need. This is something that only she can do. In Tantra the child she carries is an astral child that will one day become a new astral body for him after she creates her own. There is the physical cycle of physical pregnancy and the astral cycle of astral pregnancy. One is the path of the serpent and the other is the path of the dove.